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SHINE is Our Saviour's monthly, stories-focused publication, where we highlight the work of OSLC's many ministries and mission teams and shine a spotlight on how members of the Our Saviour's family are working to Know Jesus and Make Jesus Known.


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Below, browse a selection of stories recently featured in SHINE. Happy reading!

In Focus: WHY DO WE SING THAT IN WORSHIP?

Have you ever wondered about the different musical elements of worship at the Our Saviour’s Campus--say, what the Canticle of Praise is all about, or when and why the Kyrie rotates?


In a recent conversation, Nicholas Davis, who serves as worship director for our 9 and 11 a.m. worship services as well as director of the Sanctuary Choir and the Women’s Chorale, shared what goes into his worship-music planning and why we sing what we sing.


We talk about the “liturgy” and different liturgical seasons of the year--what is the liturgy, exactly? What does it comprise?


ND: The liturgy is basically the parts of the service historically called the Mass, but in the Lutheran church we call it the Divine Service of Holy Communion. The Lutheran service as we know it, the structure, came about in 1888, when lots of different Lutheran churches got together and created what then was called the Common Service. It has pretty much stayed the same since then. We start with a Kyrie, which is a prayer for mercy.


It's followed by the Gloria or the Canticle of Praise, which contains the words sung by the angels to the shepherds that we would find in Luke. In our church, as in many churches, we won't sing a Gloria, we'll sing "This is the Feast." Then we have the the lessons, the first reading. In response to the lessons, we sing the Alleluia--literally a response of joy to hearing God's words and preparing to hear the Gospel.


Later in the service, when we get to the communion liturgy, we have a call-and-response preface called the Great Thanksgiving (The Lord be with you.” “And also with you...”). Our sung response to that, the “Holy, Holy, Holy,” is preparing us for the highest point of the service. Sometimes I'll actually play that part of the service much louder, and there's a reason for that: That comes right before the words of institution, where we hear that we are about to partake in the body and blood of Jesus. Those are words that come directly from Isaiah and Matthew, when we say "Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord." Then before communion we'll sing the Agnus Dei, a song of praise where we're remembering that Jesus is the lamb of God and is present when we're taking communion. Those are the liturgical parts that we use normally in our services.


When and why do some musical elements of the liturgy change?


It really changes I guess with the season. For example, the first Sunday of Advent we'll be changing to a different setting of the service. That comes about through discussion with the worship planning team--what is our focus for that season? I try to switch between a traditional ELW setting and maybe something from our other resources in the Lutheran church; I try to give a variance to what we do.


Besides the liturgy, you’re also selecting our gathering song, hymn of the day and sending song, which do change each week. How do you choose those?

Every song I pick, every liturgy I choose, I choose so very intentionally because I want to make sure it matches what's being done that Sunday, and also, is it going to be effective when people hear it or sing it?


In addition to selecting from the ELW, I’ll use things from Hymnal Supplement 1991; we have a hymnal called “This Far by Faith”; and then I'll actually pull from other denominations that might have songs that are very fitting that we don't have in any of our books.


I do a lot of prayer and discernment in picking not just parts of the service itself but my prelude and my postlude. Every piece of music that I am tasked with selecting takes prayer and discernment in that moment.


What do you love most about your job, and how does it challenge you?


I love music; I love being a Lutheran; I love the church, and I get to have the opportunity to play the organ every Sunday and play the piano or lead a choir or help lead a congregation in song, all while trying to make the world a better place. I think the challenging part is holding on to traditional Lutheran service ideas and hymns but also moving forward as the church and the world changes and tying those together. Because change is hard, but sometimes we have to do uncomfortable things. From a personal standpoint, I'm a traditionalist, so sometimes it's even hard for me to try to bring in something different, like a more praise-style song, but when we do it differently and it has an effect, that's pretty cool. It’s about helping people understand that it's OK every now and then to do something a little different.


My favorite thing about what I do is that I get to do a job that I truly love.

Welcome, New Members!

Brooke Friesner and Daniel Rotta Jr. joined Our Saviour’s in October and are looking forward to getting married in the church in 2026! Writes Brooke: “We are so excited to be here! Daniel and I met in 2019 and were together long-distance until 2022, when we officially came to the area. As we finally begin to feel settled in the Naperville area, we feel it’s time to re-establish a church community. We got engaged in March and look forward to becoming newlyweds here at Our Saviour’s in 2026! At home, we have our two pups - Daisy Mae & Remington James, both Labs. We try our best to keep things interesting outside of our careers--my hobbies include slow-pitch softball, photography and home DIY projects; Daniel’s include working on cars, MMA and sand volleyball. We are very appreciative to be accepted!” Welcome, Brooke & Daniel!


Sarah Griesse and Mary Ann Ryan moved from Minnesota to Naperville two years ago and began attending Our Saviour’s this summer. Sarah write: “After visiting different churches in the area, we felt most at home at Our Saviour's. We’ve been attending the Saturday 5 p.m. service since August. Sarah’s father was a Lutheran pastor in New England. As a Catholic, Mary Ann enjoys the welcoming and inclusive nature of the Lutheran Church. Our dogs Spunky (a Pomeranian) and Sebastian (a Havanese) keep us busy. We love spending time with family and friends and watching women's sports. We look forward to continuing to meet people in the congregation.” Welcome, Sarah and Mary Ann!


Kevin Andrews returns to Naperville and comes to Our Saviour’s by way of Miami, where he lived for 26 years. He recently retired from leadership roles with mental-health and substance-recovery organizations in Miami. Kevin and his mother, who passed away suddenly six months after his return to Naperville, had longtime roots at St. Paul Lutheran in Aurora. Writes Kevin: “I attended for the first time this summer, and after my first visit, I felt like I was home. Every sermon has touched my soul. I serve as board chairman of NAMI Miami; I also exercise daily and am a huge Cubs, Bulls and Bears fan.” Welcome back to Naperville and welcome to OSLC, Kevin!

Thriving with OSLC: Social Wellness

“Love is patient; love is kind. Love is not jealous, it does not put on aires, and it is not snobbish; it is never rude or self-seeking; it is not prone to anger, nor does it brood over injuries. Love doesn’t rejoice in what is wrong, but rejoices in truth. There is no limit to love’s forbearance, to its trust, its hope, its power to endure.” - 1 Corinthians 13:4-7


Paul’s words in 1 Corinthians 13 describe what love looks like when it is healthy and life-giving. Love that is patient and kind creates space where we can be ourselves without fear.


Sadly, not all relationships reflect this kind of love, and many of us fall short. When we consider social wellness from a Christ-centered perspective, we know that it is more than just spending time with friends or being a part of a group. Social wellness is about creating and maintaining healthy, supportive, and respectful relationships and fostering a sense of connection, belonging, and community for the long term. It is about being kind, patient, respectful and loving even when that feels hard to do.


When we are able to create and maintain Christ-filled, loving relationships, all parties are able to grow, heal and thrive. But what happens when we fall short? What happens when we face painful relationship dynamics such as criticism, manipulation, shame or even abuse? What do we do if we have caused physical, emotional or spiritual harm to others, or when we are the recipient of such harm?


First, I want you to know that if you are in a relationship that feels unsafe, you are not alone. Healing and safety often begin by reaching out for help, whether it’s talking to a trusted friend, a counselor, pastor, or a member of a support organization. It is important to remember that no one ever deserves to be hurt or mistreated. Reaching out for help can often be the most difficult and vital step toward safe relationships and healing - it is a step full of love and courage.


As a faith community, we can help by offering listening ears, compassion and connection- not judgment. Safe relationships don’t just happen; they grow and are maintained through trust, respect and care. 


Take time to reflect on your relationships this month:

  • Which relationships bring you a sense of safety and peace?
  • Are there places where you need to set boundaries and seek support?
  • How can you offer patience and kindness to others in ways that builds trust?

Social wellness is not about having a perfect life or a large number of connections - it’s about being in relationships where you feel safe, valued and supported. And if you are experiencing harm, there is help and hope. We all deserve to be safe and cared for.


Resources to help strengthen your social wellness:

1) Brené Brown’s work (books, podcast, TED Talks): great for learning how to build trust and deepen relationships.

2) The Gottman Institute (gottman.com): offers free articles and relationship tools for improving communication and conflict resolution in relationships.

3) Good Inside (book, podcast, blog, and parenting app) (goodinside.com): Parenting support from clinical psychologist Dr. Becky Kennedy and team.

4) Mindful.org: Guided practices for mindfulness, which can help with empathy, listening and staying grounded during difficult conversations.


Support for those in unsafe relationships:

  • National Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1-800-799-7233 or text “START” to 88788 (24/7, confidential).
  • Family shelter service of Metropolitan Family Services DuPage: local resource for those experiencing domestic violence. 24-hour hotline: 630-469-5650
  • A Safe Place: offers a 24/7 confidential helpline, counseling for teen survivors, legal protection options and education about teen dating violence in Illinois.


My prayer for you this month and in the coming days is for the God of connection to help us listen well, care deeply and build relationships that reflect the love of Jesus Christ. May we feel ready and steady to bring kindness and hope wherever we go, spread the healing message of the Divine Spirit and model the never-ending love of our Lord. Amen.


Congregational wellness manager Alexandra Colaianni is a licensed clinical social worker and the founder of Modern Balance Integrative Therapy in Naperville. In her new role at Our Saviour's, she develops and leads special programs and activities around mental, physical and community wellness.